you are doing nothing wrong except for them fact that i make up what happens.
you say the basic action like ( i walk through the door.)
and i say ( when you walk through the door you see a bunch of jack in the boxes that are trying to eat you!)
so when you join the party you just randomly appear as a friend they have always known!
right when you join them they look over and say HI
there are two exits to the west and to the east!
now start playing!
~ilikepieyum~