attacker jaydo Jaydo 1.622.417
defender warmonger warmonger 49.592
Winnings: Metal 1.079.701 Crystal 514.905 Deuterium 136.814
Attacker Loss: The attacker has lost a total of 0 units.
Defender Loss: The defender has lost a total of 29.477.200 units.
Debris Field: Metal 10.555.020 Crystal 6.904.800

I am less than 20% his size and still under 100000 points.
How does he attack me?

In Reloaded, protection only applies up to 25,000 in points. You are free game once passing that amount.

I would not be apposed to increasing the protection score in Reloaded. 100k seems like a fair start but i am open for other opinions.

The above explanation suggests that you have just mistakingly thought protection was higher in that server. However, were you still active at this point?

Are you the same Warmonger who has an account in Standard? If you are, you are inactive there, so perhap you have been away for too long without v moding?